Beberapa komen yang masuk di lapak sebelah:
Syam Harjono Aku nda setuju Na, abortus krn sebab apapun juga, baik krn alasan medis terlebih criminalis. Bagiku, abortus adlh tragedi kemanusiaan! Seorang Beethoven pun terlahir dr seorang ibu penderita sipilis.
17 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge Syam
it is okay ..., siapa pun boleh berpendapat apa pun, dan orang lain mendengarkan dan mengapresiasinya.
^_^
17 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Helmanus Damanik Haid dianalogkan air mata darah krn ovum tdk ada yang membuahi,jd menangis lah dia dengan airmmata sampai 3-7 hari.Hehehe
17 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Ratna Kumala aku setuju solusinya, bahwa remaja harus diberikan pendidikan sex. dalam hal ini tentunya peran ortu sgt lah penting.
17 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Whytoro Saharwi Hanya masalah selembar kertas yang bisa membedakan keduanya ....
16 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Helmanus Damanik The next“ Rent The Womb” is possible. Unwanted child,the solution is conseling,not pregnancy termination.
16 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Om Hel,
'surrogate mother' is the term for women who rent their womb.
for me, to avoid unwanted children, we had better try to reduce the number of the pregnancy of unwanted children; such as using protection, pregnancy termination perhaps is... still a choice, though, especially if it is the result of rape.
14 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Ratna,
yup!
14 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Why,
bedain apaan bro?
^_^
14 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Helmanus Damanik
I'm a sort of opposed to abortion except for life saving mother (eg:pegnancy women with heart failure,severe diseases). For unwanted babies women, no way to terminate her pregnant ,every baby has authority for life,we must be careful of decision making in a such problem,it's very complicated problem.For me althogh she is a victim of a rape the first I tried to make conselling as a comprehensive decision of the problems.Actually reducing unwanted children mothers using contraceptions,but how unmarried women and widows?
12 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
I am using women's point of view that strictly think that women's bodies are their authorities. and I realize that to have abortion, it is really a complicated problem.
several years ago, I discussed this in one mailing list I join. Due to t...his, I had a quite long talk with a Catholic priest via emails. but still, I insist that in this abortion case, women should listen to their own heart.
12 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Om Hel,
what's up with unmarried women and widows? they don't have rights to get check up to get warranty that they are sexually healthy?
12 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Lucia Setyo Utomo
Di agamaku aja masih tegas2 menolak aborsi dgn dalih apapun. Boro2 aborsi, lha wong KB aja (kondom) masih baru2 aja disetujui itupun belom tegas2 benar diakuinya ...
Berbicara mengenai pengguguran kandungan memang sedikit rumit karena ada ma...nusia yg berhak untuk hidup tp di satu sisi juga ada hak perempuan atas tubuhnya sendiri.
Apa yg dilakukan agama Katholik dgn melarang aborsi menurutku terlalu idealis. Padahal realitasnya pengguran kandungan itu bisa terjadi karena banyak sebab. Tidak sesimple 'seorg ibu yg ingin membunuh bayinya' thok.
Klo pendapatku pribadi melihat kasus pengguguran kandungan sama seperti melihat kasus eutanasia. Kalau memiliki alasan yg kuat syah2 saja dilakukan ...See More
10 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Wahyu Handayani Iswandi
Mbak Na, perempuan selalu jadi obyek dan saat dia mau jadi subyek banyak sekali yang mempertanyakan!
10 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Buntung Kertopati
Wah, seru baca artikel ini, ....let me ( Habib) share a story with you all. Habib kenal seorang keluarga dari Arab, yg sudah bertaon-taon ingin punya anak. Di negerinya yang Suci tanda kutip, bayi tabung masih diharamkan ( pada waktu itu--s...ekarang habib nggak tahu). Diem-diem Fatimah dan Ali baba ( bukan nama asli) pergi ke Australia mencoba dengan bayi tabung IVF -in Vitro Fertilisation. Program IVF ternyata berhasil, dan fatimah and Ali Baba happpy dengan bayi yang sering digoda " CilukBaaaaa"...nah menurut kabar burung banyak orang arab yg datang ke negeri Kangguru ini untuk ikut program IVF- bahkan ada juga yang menggugurkan bayi- karena teknologi yg lebih humaqnsi, padahal dulu menurut agama Islam, Katolik, Kristen dll, diharamkan. Nha kini Ilmu Kedoktoran ternyata mampu mengatasi kebodohan manusia. Ilmu pengetahuan tiu adalah bagian dari semesta ini dan bagi orang yg beragama ( seperti habib yg sholatnya 6x sehari ) tentunya Ilmu pengetahuan adalah bagian dari kemuzizatan TUHAN. Sorry Mbak Nana aku ikut memberkan kuliah...di post mu ...
7 hours ago · UnlikeLike · 1 personYou like this.
o
Karina Yoke Finalli
hmm, spt biasa lazim nya ms. Na yg satu ni sll punya topik seru utk dijadiin renung an.
Well, as a new mother myself, q kadang2 msh suka termenung, koq bs ya dr ovum-sperma bs tumbuh jd bayi yg (subhanallah-anak q) cantik sekali.
Ada asap krn... ada api, ada akibat dr sebab. Selama alasan pengguguran msh bs dipertanggung jawabkan, maka (mgkn) sah2 saja pengguguran. Tapi, terkadang yg terjadi justru sebalik nya. Maka nya praktik2 aborsi ilegal msh byk berkeliaran. Karna jk memang pengguguran tu utk alasan medis [*baca: bs dipertanggung jawakan] tentu jg dilakukan oleh tangan2 yg bertanggung jwb pula...
3 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Lucia,
thanks for sharing your opinion here ...
as usual, I love your comments
^_^
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Wahyu,
and we MUST keep struggling to make women as subjects despite the consequences.
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
mas Bun,
thanks for sharing that story of hypocrite 'habib' or perhaps religious minister or whateva ...
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
Karin sayang,
you reminded me of my own experience when Angie was just born; I also thought that way, how could I produce a very cute baby? I just gave birth to another life of another human being! my very own baby!
tempat-tempat aborsi illegal masih berkeliaran karena negara ini terlalu hipokrit dengan masih tetap menganggap aborsi sesuatu yang immoral.
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike
o
Nana Podungge
for all,
I wanna share something that I sent to Om Helmanus's inbox below:
by the way,
...have you ever known a certain community somewhere on this earth that has a contradictory tradition from most communities? they have a ritual to cry together in a village to welcome a newborn baby. a birth of a baby is analogous with misery; the baby will have to undergo lots of miserable pains, problems, and stuff.
