Second, my family built my attitude. Since I was a child, my parent taught me to greet and interact with people, table manners, and how to see many things from various perspectives. I often tell all about my experiences at school and with friends to them. So, my parents can advise me when I do something and they always warn me if I do anything wrong.
Third, I am grateful that my parents taught me about attitude. Because of it, I feel different in society. Which is, I used to interact with people that older than me. They can comfortably talk on the same topic with me, and of course, I put in some work to balance the topic. On the other hand, many people tell me that I am mature in my age. Therefore, I like to talk with my friends at school. Even some point, I realized the difference between my high school and my college friends, I tried to adapt to the differences even sometimes I should be a little bit patient. Also, I got relations with my friends who already got to work. Sometimes I got called to join their work, which is modeling. It is beneficial to me and I got my experiences.
Fourth, excellence in someone sometimes brings a burden to themselves. It happens because many people will depend on the people that they see better than them. It happens to me, it doesn't mean that I see myself as an excellent person, but sometimes I feel that some people depend on me when doing some assignment. Some of them wanted me to teach them, sometimes I teach if they asked, but it doesn't mean every time. I feel frustrated at some point because I should work hard on my assignment. I'm not the smartest like they think, I still should study.
Fifth, faced different perspectives of people's opinions about my achievement. Studying isn't the one way to achieve my goals, but I also learn. First, some people think that school grades don't have a big influential on the future. But, it's different for me. I feel proud of myself when I get good grades. Also, study is included in self-love, which means I can develop my knowledge and my way of thinking. Second, I always try to learn new things, even when I get scared on it. I try to push myself to do something that I am scared of. For example, I learn to do public speaking, open a conversation with someone, go to the new community, etc. After I try many new things, I feel that I shouldn't be scared of doing it because it makes me become a better person.
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CONSISTENCY Â
Consistency is a key, that is what everyone says, and I agree about it. Which means, I should be patient with my progress. Even though I should live and enjoy the pain, I should dance in the bloody sweat, hard work never betrays the result. In my opinion, consistency isn't always related to doing something that someone likes, but it is related to doing something repeatedly even if you don't like it.Â
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