No, they don't.
Their likes as not similar as ours.
Their happiness as not same as ours.
What if their definition of success is to be useful for other people (not about the money), while yours is can buy anything you want, while yours is have all of money over the world. Why do you laugh at what makes them happy?
They don't even ask your money to build their success.
If we like to travel the world with our spouse.
They might like to travel the world with the whole family, with their spouse, their parents, their brother and sister in law, and their brother.
So, why you treat them as they were you?
Maybe you love to culinary, but they probably love scenery.
Then, why you always ask them for following just because you think they also love it? They like it, too, but why don't you think that they want really bad to enjoy landscape too?
Perhaps they love to staycation for holiday. Why do you insists to take them out just because you think they'll like it like you do?
What if their meaning of happiness is to gather with all of their beloved people, instead of you bought them all of jewelry you can buy.
Yes, why?
Our happiness as not the same as them.
If you want to make them happy, make it as their own way, not you.
If their happiness is your goal, just focusing on them, not you.
Therefore, don't treat them like you want to be treated.
Treat them like THEY want to be treated.
Because it's about them, not you.
And now, can I?