3. Memperkuat support system.
Pada saat mengalami situasi yang sulit dan tidak menyenangkan, pada umumnya kita tidak bisa mengandalkan diri sendiri. Dukungan keluarga, teman maupun orang yang peduli  akan sangat membantu menguatkan mental kita melewati kesulitan tersebut. Meluangkan waktu lebih banyak dengan keluarga dan berbagi pengalaman ghosting dengan teman yang mengalami hal yang sama membuat kita merasa tidak sendiri, diterima, dipahami dan didukung. Pengalaman ghosting justru dapat membuat ikatan keluarga dan persahabatan menjadi semakin kuat dan kokoh lewat kebersamaan, berbagi cerita dan saling support.
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