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Toxic Relationship: Acknowledging Red Flag Behaviors

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Toxic relationship may result from various contributing factors whic if combined, create an unsafe situation for those who are involved. Some of factors causing toxic relationships include;

  • A lack of communication
  • Which can lead to incomprehension, misunderstanding, and ultimately, unhealthy conflict within the relationship.
  • Unequal distribution of power
  • Unhealthy relationships frequently entail unequal power dynamics, wherin one individual dominates or controls the other.
  • Inability to handle conflict
  • An inability to deal with conflictconstructively can be the cause of an accumulation of problems and a sense of dissatifaction
  • Emotional instability
  • Emotional instabiliy can be persaive in one or both partners and can lead to emotional outburst or harmful behavior
  • Overdependence
  • Where partners rely excessively on each other without healty boundaries, can cause an imbalance in the relationships
  • Red Flag Behaviors
  • Definition
  • Warning signs, or red flags, indicate potenstial issues in a given context. When it comes to relationships, red flags are behaviors, traits, or characteristics that may indicate  potential issues or incompatibilities with a person. Inviduals ahould exercise caution or reconsider pursuing a relationship with someone who exhibits these traits.
  • Factors
  • The factors that trigger red flags in individuals can differ significantly based on personal preferences and values. In the context of mate selection and relationship perferences, potential dealbreakers or reasons for concern may include unattractive physical appearance, unhealthy lifestyl choices, undesirable personality traits, conflicting religious beliefs, limited social status, divergent mating strategies, and incompatible relationship goals. These factor can differ from person to person, and what migth be considered a warning sign for one person may not be the same for another.
  • Characteristics and example
  • Some of the characteristics of someone with red flags include: rudeness, giving the silent treatment, excessive selfishness and possesiveness, dishtrust and jealousy, manipulation, have a history of cheating and breadcrumbing.
  • In addition, some examples of redflags while during a date include: consuming too much alcohol, excessiv phone use, disinterest in conversation, and flirting with others. Overdiscussing past relationships, especially in a negative or insecure manner, may indicate potential incompatibility with a romantic partner.

Methodology 

            This research method uses a qualitative method with a description analysis approach to describe the relations between red flag and toxic relationship. This approach focuses on collecting information by studying scientific related to the title being researched. Scientific articles used in the form of published journals as the main source of data collection. The analysis technique of this research is to review literature review, which is to read carefully and thoroughly on reading sources to obtained valid information related to the topic being studied, then data has been obtained is compiled by describing in detail the phenomenon of red flag in toxic relationship.

Result and finding

As is widely recognized, every couple seeks happiness in their relationship. Sukidi (2004) noted that a fulfiling life is a universal aspiration and there are several factors that promote happiness in human life. Despite this, numerous couples are ensnared in toxic relationships, sometimes without realizing it. This toxic relationships certainly hinders humans from fulfilling their happines.

One contributing factor to such toxicity is presence of a redflag partner in the relationship. Displaying indicators of toxic relationships, such as perpetual anger, distress, and frustation, or angaging in behaviours that cause. These behaviours could be emotional, psychological strain, isolation, and public humiliation.

Red flags in toxic relationships can significantly harm a partner's well-being and mental health. Such relationships often feature emotional, verbal, or physical abuse patterns that may give rise to fear, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Red flag individuals, on the other hand, may see their relationships affected by trust issues, communication

difficulties, and persistent power struggels. Nonetheless, their actions are unjustified due to the toxic nature of their relationship, which can negatively impact multiple aspects of their partner's life, including work performance, social interactions, and overall happiness.

Red flag behaviours in a relationship include manipulative control of the partner's actions or isolation from friends and family, a lack of emphaty or regard for their needs and verbal or physical abuse intended to maintain power. Additional signs include possessiveness, jealoust, insecurity leading to excessive monitoring or suspicion of the partner's activities, and communication issues where criticism or defensiveness are used instead of open and respectful dialogue. Lastly, the individual has a history of being in toxic relationships and displays simirial behavioral patterns from past relationship. It is vital that these red flag are recognized in order to prevent toxic relationships.

The repercussions of being in a toxic relationship can be catastrophic. The emotional effects of incessant negativity, manipulation, and disrespect can result in anxiety, depression, and even self-doubt. People who are in such relationships frequently lose confidence in themselves, their abilities, and their worth. Moreover, the mental and emotional burden can extend to other aspects of life, such as work or friendships, which can have an impact on overall well-being and happiness.

Conclusion

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