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How Does An Introvert Start a Relationship

20 Desember 2022   01:00 Diperbarui: 20 Desember 2022   01:09 220
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2. Build confidence 

This point has actually been discussed a lot in various ways, but here we want to focus on an introvert. Simply put, if you don't feel confident speaking, it means you doubt your own abilities. when, in fact, you are much more than what you show. It also affects the judgment of the interlocutor. They may think less well of you. In the book Quiet Impact, there are several methods for building self-confidence, one of which is keeping a diary full of success stories. The goal is for you to be driven and motivated to be more confident.

3. Pay full attention to the person in front of you.

When you already have a friend who usually chats in small talk or small talk slowly, you can pay attention when he talks that way. He feels comfortable with you doing this because, indirectly, you empathize with him and seem to try to understand what he is experiencing.

4. Be a good listener Make your achievements known to others.

A good listener? Isn't this not a foreign thing for introverts? Actually, why is it necessary to be a good listener? We can see the effect on the interlocutor. If the other person feels heard, they will think that we have empathy, and they will want to chat with us again.

5. Make your achievements known to others.

The purpose is for them to see our talent and be curious about what an introvert who is usually quiet and seems to have no advantage in any field can do. Just show it, because with forgiveness we can do something valuable.

6. Introduce people you know to each other

Getting to know each other indirectly can expand the relationship. It is not difficult, right? Because that way, your relationship with other people will improve, and you can learn the differences between each character that you can use as a reference for how to be better at communicating.

7. Ask your acquaintances to introduce you to their friends

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