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Dating Your Best Friend Can be The Best Thing in Your Life

12 Mei 2020   13:16 Diperbarui: 12 Mei 2020   13:21 160
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Human is social creatures who can't live alone in this world. They tend to make relation with other people. Many kinds of relation in this world, one of them is friendship. According to Wikipedia, friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people. Those people who have friendship can be a girl with other girls, boy with other boys, or it can be boys and girls. 

Most people say that if boy and girl have friendship, they would can't be separated from love feelings between both of them and that kind of feeling can ruin their friendship. It is common thought that some people don't want to confess their feelings about they have been falling in love with their best friend. 

I agree with that thought, because you can't read other people's mind of you and maybe your best friend not feel the same way with you. However, the existence of love between boy and girl in some friendship is not a bad thing, maybe dating your best friend can be your best decision you ever made in your life.

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Being loved with person who know you better is the luckiest thing in this world. When you are spending time together, you don't need to pretend be another person in front of him/her, it is such an incredible thing in this world. 

Although, you will lose one person who will listen your story when you have a problem in your relationship, in fact, you can just directly solve the problem between both of you without need other people suggestions.

You were best friend before, just talk heart to heart about it and try to solve the problem by your own. In this case, talk heart to heart can make your relationship more closer and feelings about afraid to lose him/her will deeper than before.

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Your relationship will bring more happiness than sadness.If you are dating your best friend, you will spend your time with making fun of each other rather just think about "what if my boy friend/girlfriend will don't get my joke and then he/she will angry with me". 

However, sometimes you will lose the romantic moment when you are together because both of you often making fun of everything, in fact, it will not decrease your love feelings and romantic atmosphere when you are spending time together. Romantic moment take a right time and place. Special moment will take a lots effort too, to make it special and unforgettable, it includes romantic moment too.

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Then you can arrange your dating time easier. Because he/she know you in and out, at least he/she know your daily routine. However, because both of you know each other, you will feel don't need to contact him/her. 

That thing will be the factor for less communication between both of you, in fact, that's not true if that can be the factor between both of you less communication. Life is not about she/he, many other things that can be a factors of less communication in a relationship. 

You need well preparation of your future, and it will take a lot time and effort. Instead interfere you with not important call or message about just asking "What are you doing?", he/she will make a time for just meet you or maybe he/she even can help you.

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In conclusion, it is not bad thing to try dating your best friend. Even, you don't know about what his/her feeling about you, at least you better try than never to take the chance. Just try to be honest and confess your love. So, what will you choose? Say it or just keep it until you see your best friend dating another person?

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