Understand what you truly desire. Look at yourself and say what you want to say to yourself. If only negative thoughts about yourself are on your mind, pause and ask yourself if you truly love yourself. Listen to what your heart desires and start being your true self.
5. Focus Your Attention on Your Daily Life
When all your attention is focused on what you do every day, you'll begin to understand how you think and act. Knowing how you think and act will help you appreciate what you're doing at the moment.
6. Learn to Describe Your Appearance
Describe how you see yourself in the mirror; observe every aspect of yourself. If negative thoughts arise, change them into positive ones, and don't hate anything about yourself. Realize that everyone has strengths and weaknesses. It's normal to have flaws; you're human.
7. Define Your Role in Life
Understand your role in life, whether it's in your daily interactions with society, educational institutions, or your workplace. Observe what you represent in those contexts. Also, consider your role in your family and within your home.
8. Ask Others About Yourself
Learning how others perceive you can help you discover things you might not see in yourself. Don't worry about all the comments you receive; you only need to understand how others see you because you are the one who truly knows yourself.
9. Seek a Life Vision and Mission
Determining your life vision and mission can help you figure out where you want to go in the future. This is the beginning of finding your life's purpose and how your future will unfold.