If you can do all the above things.. congratulations!! You're now a common comforter!!
*throwing confetti mode is on :p*
But I can't do it that wayy..
I can't curse someone with them just because that someone has hurted them so badly for I do think we all have our own shares in each problems that we have so it just doesn't feel right to put all the blame in one person only :p
But of course I can't say that to them, right? Ahahahaa.. otherwise I might have things being thrown at me :p
Even if the other person was a real jerk, we did have our "mistakes", too, which was.. letting ourselves to be so drown in our emotions whileas we can do the other way, ahahaha :p
But I do "comfort" them in a wayy.. in making them see (although I must sayy not always succeeded for my friend once said that sometimes we just wanted to be listened and we didn't need any advices, huahahaha ;p) that in time things will be better.
Let it rain now but make sure you do know that sunshine will always follow the rain, huahahahaha :D
But at times I can be a partly comforter, too.
I can do the sit and listen part though I skip the nodding and answering part, wakakakakak..
Heyy.. I can compromise my own "principles" sometimes but no need to give up all, right? :p