Kiki: "Sir, what is your life motto?"
Jon Lim: "In life, do not expect sympathy from others! Thinking my limitations, I have to ask myself what I can do. That has been my motto since childhood."
Kiki: "What is the secret of your success?"
Jon Lim: "I try everything I can. When it seems impossible, I ask first, like when applying for jobs in private companies. People think a blind person wouldn't be accepted, but I asked and prayed first. Then, I was tested and passed. I was also the first blind person to graduate in law in East Java. This is because there were no blind people willing to try. In terms of courage, don't worry about what others will think of you. If you have solid skills, like being proficient in English, showcase them when you meet people, they will trust that you can give solution. My principle was that if someone came to my office, it meant they needed my help, even if they were a doctor who didn't understand law."
Kiki: "Wow, that's impressive! How do you build your self-confidence?"
Jon Lim: "To build self-confidence, you have to confront situations. You have to be brave, even when pressured, but focus on positive actions that enhance your skills."
Kiki: "What messages would you like to convey to fellow visually impaired readers to help them succeed like you, even without parental support?"
Jon Lim: "First, never expect sympathy from others. Second, think ahead. Don't rely on others. Ask yourself, what can I do? For example, if I were physically disabled and lost a hand, what could I still accomplish?"
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