But, in general, people do not listen to others with patience and, in the middle, only start talking about all the negative things. As a result, they become the greatest demotivators, dampening others' spirits, worsening their situation, restricting them from dealing with their problem, and, above all, becoming a barrier to achieving their objectives. In the current situation, the majority crowd's negative attitude breeds contempt for themselves.
Comparing others to oneself or to loved ones:
You could have come across persons who consider themselves and their loved ones to be the most superior human beings. They place little value on other attributes and are always attempting to demotivate individuals.
When they observe someone being praised for something, they begin comparing them to themselves or a loved one in an attempt to disgust that person by convincing him or her that he or she has done nothing special that should be celebrated by everybody.
Not respecting the feelings of others:
When one individual shares his or her sentiments with another, it shows that they trust and respect one another. The majority of individuals do not value or care about other people's feelings and emotions.
In this scenario, the one expressing the emotion may believe that he or she misunderstood the person to whom he or she was giving their hearts, and that the person they trusted and respected is unworthy of their respect and trust.
Putting the burden of decision-making on others:
If someone is addressing their difficulties with us, we should pay attention to them and, if we have a good solution for them, we should share it. This is what a decent guy would do, yet most individuals try to compel others to follow their recommendations.
This is due to our egocentric nature. When we find that our answer is not accepted or that the person we have counseled on an issue is not following our advice, we feel irritated with them rather than analyzing why they have not followed our advice.
Being untrustworthy and lacking in integrity:
