Okay, in this article i want to tell u that ur children is a reflection of urself. U angry with ur children because they have a bad attitude, they lied to u, they gets angry quickly. But trust me, everything happens for a reason. Ur children did that because of YOU.
If ur children gets angry quickly the reason might be u have not praised the enough. They only get attention MISBEHAVING
If ur children intentionally disturbs you, it’s bcs u aren’t physically affectionate enough and they only want ur time. Is it wrong?
If ur child is LYING, it means u OVERREACTED to the mistakes in the past. Oh come on, we still young and make some mistakes but u always judge and punish us. U said that we are a fool human, a btch, a dog etc. We are ur children if we are a dog, u are a dog too right?
Ur child is lying to u because u have no time to talk with ur child. They want to give u the truth but u never give them a little bit of ur time. U use ur time to procure money and wealth. U want ur children to have a good attitude but u never standing by their side. Remember this, money and wealth are important for us but time is more important. With money, u can buy MANY THINGS not EVERYTHING. But, can money turn back the time? Let’s open ur mind! Ur child just want ur time. Time can make ur money but can money make ur time?
U can buy a sex with money but can’t buy a love
U can buy an education with money but can’t buy a knowledge
U can buy a doctor with money but can’t buy a good health
U can buy a house with money but can’t buy a home
U can buy a position but can’t buy a respect
U can buy a blood but can’t buy a life
U can buy a bed but can’t buy a sleep
DON’T LET UR WEALTH MAKES U FORGET ABOUT UR LIFE
I give u a short story
Once upon a time, there’s two man. The rich man and the wise man. The wise man is always read many books. One day, the rich man went to wise man’s house. He said, “ How stupid u are. U read many books but it’s useless. It can’t bring a wealth. Look at me, i never read a book but i’m rich.” And the wise man just smile. Then, the rich man left the wise man
A month later, there’s a big war in their town. The rich man lost his big house, money, and company. He was so poor. He didn’t have anything. How about the wise man? With all his knowledge he built the town again and he became a rich man! Then the rich man regret all his arrogant.
The moral of the story is WEALTH DOESN’T ALWAYS BRING UR HAPPINESS. U CAN LOST IT. BUT U CAN’T LOST UR KNOWLEDGE AND UR GOOD ATTITUDE.
Maybe, many of u said to ur daughter, “ Find a rich husband, u’ll get ur happiness. “ It’s WRONG!!! Let me correct ur sentence. The right sentences is “ Find a husband that can make u happy, want to success with u, never cheated u, never lied to u, and never treated u bad. “
I think it’s not important to find a rich husband. Is more important to find a husband that always fighting for his wife, always treated his wife like his queen and ofc have a good attitude.
Many of a rich boy in my school act like he is the best guy. He has a good car, an expensive phone, a big house. But his attitude? He is smoking, drinking, clubbing, he playing girl’s heart. He wasting his time, his money, and his energy to do some stupid things like that.
Mom, please understand me. I’m not pretty like other girls in my school so i can’t find a rich boy. But i can find a boy who always understand me, never leave me, care with me ike i’m his princess. I have a reason but u never want to hear my reason. U said that i’m stupid. i’m not like ur friend’s daughter. But do u know ur friend’s daughter attitude in school? Do u ever hear my reason? Please don’t judge my choices without knowing my reasons.
Mom, u hear what other’s else talk about me but u never want to hear my statement. Life is so unfair right? I REALLY LOVE U MOM. I miss everything that we had 13 years ago. We rode a bicycle together. Even tough we didn’t have a lot of money we still happy. We went to church together. But now? U never go to church anymore. U don’t believe Jesus Christ and Mother Mary anymore. I just miss the old u. I hope u can understand. I always study hard to reach a good score to makes u happy and proud of me. But it’s useless. U only happy when u received money, some branded stuffs, a shopping voucher. Am i a trash mom?
PLEASE OPEN UR MIND AND UR HEART. LIFE ISN’T ALWAYS ABOUT MONEY AND WEALTH LIFE IS ABOUT LOVE. TAKE AND GIVE. DON’T LET UR CHILDREN FEEL LONELY BCS U NEVER GIVE THEM UR TIME.
With love,
Your daughter
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