in this chance i want to try to share my opinion about marriage life. many people in Indonesia think that women after getting married they have to stay at home. taking care of their husband, raising their children well. but in another side wives also have a right to find an occupation outside, this isn't only about financial, but it is about satisfaction.
Women’s destiny in the end is become a wife. In marriage life wife has the biggest important role, she has to be able to control anything, to take care ofher husband and children, to manage money to fulfill her family needs.
Talking about fnancial issues in marriage life. Many women have an expectation if they can have a full time job, a big career and at the same time have a husband, children and run a house. Many women feel that they have to choose between one role and the other ones. Because wives can’t put all the financial stress over the shoulders of the husband. Imagine, how if oneday bad thing’s happening to your family and your husband can’t earn much money anymore and you have children. If as a wife, woman has a career, she can help her husbands or she can save the money for the urgent occasion.
In my opinion wives can have it all, the key is compromise, I think wives still can work, and have a career, obviously when women are married and have children, they can't be staying up late working at the office, they have other responsibilities, like a husband and raising our children. In my opinion it can work very well when both persons in a marriage decide to share responsibilities, at the end both persons live in the same home, and both persons are the parents of the children. I think women shouldn't be put in the situation of choose, because men don't have to.
