Patriarchy in Indonesia

"boy don't cry!"

"You're a boy, but that's why it sucks!"

"Men must be strong"

  This sentence further instills patriarchy in Indonesian culture, where men are asked to be strong figures because they are the ones who deserve to be leaders.

This is certainly in line with the phrase "Women should not wake up late"

"Girls are better off at home"

" women don't need school, in the end take care of children at home"

Because women are required to be the ones who have to take care of their husbands and children, and prepare all the family's needs. Gender roles. 

In gender role conflict theory, O'Neil defined restrictions as an individual's attempt to control their behavior and the behaviors of others to conform to stereotypical and restrictive norms, consistent with the ideology of masculinity. Gender role conflict appears when gender role stereotypes are strong.

Men are indeed created to be stronger than women but that does not mean that the work done by men cannot be done by women. "Patriarchy" is a type of male-centered society in which men have power and play a monopolistic role in political leadership, moral authority, social privileges, and control over property. 

A patriarchal family environment with a clear distinction of gender roles can significantly impact the development of individual perceptions of gender roles.