We might think or even believe that all problems we encounter in life are set up to be our destiny, which could not be changed at all; or those are our fates that we have to accept without questioning them. As a result, we may feel those problems as ‘curses’ and that our life might turn into 'jail' (forever?) in which we feel like there are no restful and tranquil places to live in anymore. Likewise, it is quite difficult to put our heart at ease. Can you imagine that? How hard it would be.
For example, some people experience having large debts and find it difficult to pay back, suffering from illnesses that are very complicated to treat, not easy to get a good job and that it hard to be independent or even unable to support the family, live in an unhappy family or in a broken-home family but have no idea how to resolve it, etc. At this point, let us think appropriately that there are likely reasons behind our problems. What we could do is that to find out what are those reasons? What are the lessons learnt that we could embrace?
We might be surprised that it may come from our sins. In addition, just to remember that every person would be responsible for all his/her own acts in life, good deeds and also bad deeds. So, that is our own concern to sort it out. It would be wise if we never blame others for what have been happening to us. It is also an advantage if we could see everything from different perspectives. This would assist us to not be judgmental.
Consequently, it is worth to always be positive to view our problems. Having positive thinking would be more effective to have good effects in our body, mind, and soul than having negative thinking. By having positive thinking, it is advised that it is most likely reaching no less than 70% positive results or even more. Indeed, it is a huge impact! At the same time it can boost our positive energy to work out powerfully, and of course, by not forgetting the endeavors and prayers!
Having said the above, be positive is one way to get serenity and a balanced life. A positive outlook is a choice that we can always make in every moment. Not only is it a method to get relaxation that we need, but also it is a technique to prevent and even to resolve the problems we may be facing and the other harmful effect that it may cause.*
