The Winner of Life

One day the best couple of friends went to a place to buy some books and magazines . The seller serves badly . His face was sullen . One of them was clearly annoyed receive such as it. However although like that, the other one still enjoy, event he is still polite to the seller. Then the first man asked his friend , “Hey . Why are you still polite and enjoy to the seller that it sucks ?”

His friend answered, “Well, why should I promise him to determine my attitude in act? We are the determinant for our life, not someone else.”

“But he served us badly at all.” He still felt sullen.

“Yes that’s his problem. He want to be bad mood, impolite, serve badly, and others, it is not combinated with us. If we are the end influenced with him, it means that we let him to determine and influence our life. Whereas it is our responsible actually“.

Friends, our actions often influenced by the actions from the other person to us. If they do bad things for us, we will respond it with the things that worse too. If they are impolite, we will be more impolite again than they are. And then if the other person is stingy to us, we are that the first quixotic suddenly become so stingy if have to deal with the person.

Friends, from the short story in above we can think about it. Why our actions should be influenced by the others?Why to do something that good, we have to wait someone do something that good first? Keep our mood. Don’t let bad attitudes from the other can determine our act! Choose to continue to do well, although received the bad things from the other. Because, the winner of life is someone that still stay cool although in the place that hot, which still stay sweet in a very bitter, which still stay fell small although it has been great, and then still stay quite in the middle of the most severe storm.