Why Should We Self Love

Currently, self love is widely discussed on social media and one thing we should know is that there are a lot of friends and teenagers now about self love and it turns out that ourselves this is also a problem for some young people today, even though according to psychologists, self love is an ability that we must have.  have in us this especially from a young age friends.

For me self-love is one way how we value ourselves. You have to realize that in this world you don't have the control to make everyone respect you.  You also have to realize that in this world honestly no one really cares about you. If you can't appreciate yourself, if you don't care for yourself, then who else? after all it is impossible to expect much from people out there to always do all that for you.

You need to be appreciated, of course.  But you can't expect much from other people.  Therefore self-love is important so that you can be appreciated at least it is done by yourself.  It's too ironic if other people don't respect you but you do it yourself too. because honestly the one who can do everything for you is yourself. Learn to do good things for yourself, at least one of the good things is that you are able to respect yourself.

God doesn't always give people everything they want.  Humans as servants of God must be ready to accept it patiently and sincerely.  If you are not able to be patient and sincere, it will make life more uneasy.  No human in this world wants a bad life.  Such feelings make us feel sad.  Confidence is getting lost over time.  Finally, make them not want to leave the house.  He thinks that other people out there are luckier than he is.

Loss of self-confidence not only causes misunderstandings but also harms oneself.  When self-confidence decreases, it creates other problems, such as getting more difficult to get a job.  Feeling physically worse than other people, and also not having the courage to compete for jobs with other humans.

The loss of self-confidence is what makes the scope of work narrower.  Negative thoughts will not be accepted in big companies, making self-confidence even more.  When self-confidence wears off, starting a business or business becomes difficult to develop. His brain will always be shackled by thoughts, his business will definitely lose compared to other entrepreneurs.

Self-confidence is the driving force for moving forward.  When humans do not have self-confidence, they are increasingly excluded from society and feel alienated in society.  When you feel a stranger in society, you will assume that people around you pay attention to all of your behavior.  Thinking like that makes self-confidence go away.

Happiness is unconditional. Happiness can just pop up and disappear. It depends on what we have in mind at that time.  However, this does not mean that we can not create a sense of happiness. There are many things that can be done so that feelings of happiness can arise and last a long time in us and in our minds.

The definition of happiness is different for everyone. Each person has his own indicator, which is adjusted to the desire and goal of attaining. Some people feel happy at being able to breathe free air and enjoy the beauty of the world, while others are happy to have so many possessions and friends, and few people will be happy if their desires and ambitions are fulfilled. Many of the ways one goes to achieve one's own happiness, but many also give up on achieving them because they are unable to face all the obstacles that come to that happiness.

A powerful way to be happy is to fill the days with pleasant things. Enjoyable activities can stem from the courage to do new things that you have never done before. For example, if our heart is currently distressed. We can engage in activities that test adrenaline. Like, bungee jumping off a bridge, crossing over a tower thousands of feet above the ground, and so on. Besides fun, guaranteed to make a forgot about the grief being experienced.