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Strawberry Generation and Strawberry Parenting

18 April 2023   10:21 Diperbarui: 18 April 2023   11:13 1476
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As a teacher, I have noticed an increasing trend in recent years that has been dubbed the "strawberry generation" and the phenomenon of "strawberry parenting." These terms refer to young people who are perceived to be easily bruised or damaged, and parents who are seen as overly protective and indulgent. In this article, I will explore the concept of the strawberry generation, discuss the potential causes, and provide some suggestions on how to overcome this phenomenon.

The term "strawberry generation" originated in Asia, where it was used to describe young people who are perceived as fragile and unable to handle challenges or difficulties. These individuals are often seen as lacking resilience and perseverance, and they may struggle to adapt to new situations or cope with setbacks. They are also viewed as having a sense of entitlement and expecting to be rewarded without putting in the necessary effort.

One of the primary causes of the strawberry generation is the parenting style known as "strawberry parenting." This style of parenting is characterized by overprotectiveness and indulgence, where parents are overly involved in their children's lives and tend to shield them from any potential harm or disappointment. These parents may also have high expectations for their children and want them to succeed at all costs, which can lead to pressure and anxiety for the child.

I also feel that sometimes people who are in the retired stage do not help the situation by making everything sounds easy nowadays. Relieving the past glory without acknowledging the problems and helping in their own capacity. I personally consider it to be bullying of these already vulnerable strawberry generation.

Another contributing factor is the changing social and economic landscape. In many developed countries(to a certain degree, some developing countries), young people face a range of challenges that previous generations did not, such as increasing competition for jobs, high housing costs, and a highly competitive education system. These factors can create a sense of uncertainty and anxiety, leading some young people to feel overwhelmed and unable to cope. 

So, how can we overcome the phenomenon of the strawberry generation? One key solution is to foster resilience and grit in young people. This involves providing opportunities for children to face challenges and overcome obstacles, and encouraging them to develop a growth mindset that focuses on learning from failures rather than avoiding them. Parents can also help by teaching their children to take responsibility for their actions and encouraging them to develop a sense of independence.

Another important step is to promote mental health and well-being. This involves providing support and resources for young people who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues. Parents can also help by modeling healthy coping strategies and encouraging open communication about emotions and feelings.

As a teacher, I see many more specific details, including our attitude towards each other, but for now I want to conclude that the concept of the strawberry generation and strawberry parenting is a complex issue that requires a multi-faceted approach. By promoting resilience, independence, and mental health, we can help young people overcome the challenges they face and develop the skills they need to thrive in today's world. It's time to move beyond the stereotype of the strawberry generation and work together to create a brighter future for all.

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