Well, when we will be married Guys, I'm sure all women when getting married definitely crave-ideal figure of a husband who ... really guys. They thought their husbands would always be strong, unwavering faith, bravely facing the temptation, never give up, always opinionated, always know what they would do. But when the figures began to show weakness of their husbands, many women are shocked.
"Why is this so?!?! Which figure boyfriend who always knows what she should do!?!? Where is my hero, once so gallant? Turned out to face pressure in the workplace have been sluggish?!
Actually guys, our husband's human. He said one reason for divorce is most often they refuse to accept that their partner man! Who can forget, be down, be tired, can angry, be sad, to cry, can be broken ...
During married six months, I've had ever see my husband's disappointment, stress, confusion, dizziness, panic, sadness, despair, broken ... At first I was surprised, "Haaaaah? Guys like this ?!?!" but I learned a long time that this was one of my role as a wife. Comfort and strengthen. :) Part of us is to recharge our husband so he could fight again tomorrow at work.
I so remember to an old article I ever wrote. Erhm En ... if I remember correctly, this paper is inspired by the same couple of guys and one of them my love (who became my husband now).
Wekekekek ( :-p ***
Heee guy cry?
"My Nan ren, my ba ba ba me, bu shi zui ...." * Hey man, cry, cry, cry. It's not a sin .* That said, Andy Lau. (:P), Well I usually do not like Andy Lau, but I liked that song. Because I agree with Andy Lau. Guys cry, Is it wrong?
I used the same sentiment a boy, I often feel that society is just being unfair and cruel to women. Standard of beauty that doesn’t make sense, that makes a lot of girls so miserable because the diet must be getting desperate for 'ideal body' like Angelina Jolie. * But I sure would not trade my life with the life of Angelina Jolie. No waaayyy! * Discrimination against women, blablabla. Until I actually didn’t realize that men also face the cruel world. Masculinity is actually the same standard once 'unmanly'.
Macho guy six packs identified with the body, looks cool, maniacs ball, repeatedly changing spare part car, heavy bags, cool car, repeatedly changing boyfriends, going with the gym. Well in reality how many guys who can? Honestly guys, I watched guys around me and my conclusions with my best friend is, turns out all the same guy .... His stomach uneven wear * sung tone "I Love It"-Vina Panduwinata *. Guys, the macho standards of boys according to the world, it was not macho. Seriously.
One of the many taboos that bastard done by the boys 'macho' is to shed a tear or cry. He says it is unlawful if the man cried. Boys need to be strong. Just a girl who was crying. Crying is a sign of weakness.
