Us, What Shapes Us and What We are Going Through

No one has to be like us. Just because we don’t like something, doesn’t mean they are wrong ❤️ since we can’t change people, we can  only change our selves, our reaction. And our reaction is our stuff. Other people shouldn’t be responsible for the bad things we have in our head 

Let's learn together that it's easy for us to point out for people mistakes. We can do it effortless even blindfolded, because most of us always see ourselves as the protagonist, it's just how our unconscious mind works. Therefore it needs a huge courage, confidence, consciousness to admit that we all have mistakes too.

I do believe we are the product of our experiences, our thoughts, people who influence us, etc. those shape us who we are and why we are different.

But when it comes to sense that we are being hurt, everyone is the same. we can't stop people from irritating us, no one can.  and it's not our fault that we feel a certain way, it's out of our control . There's nothing we can do about it beside dealing with our own reaction. it's our choice if we want to feel irritated for the rest of our lives. But that kind of mindset will not take us anywhere, won't they?

If we choose to cope it with negativity, we might be considered as "difficult people" , despite we care or not if we considered as "them", yet it hurts ourselves, it haunts us and  it hurts people around us as well who don't even know the roots of our problems :)  

Cheers!

A person with mistakes