The formation of the personality of the person is certainly done through socialization, in which the first person to be socializing with his/her family, then the environment, a place to learn, work and so on.
The first family through socialization because since the first time a baby was born then he/she will have been taught by their parents about how to walk, eat, shower and so on. Then gradually, parents will teach about a character such as attitude to should not steal or lie.
At that stage, the children will also learn the behaviour of the parents, if the parents behaved well of course what is imitated by children will be also good for the formation of personality in the future but if parents behaving badly, the children will also be influenced and then follow the bad things learned from his parents.
Like if a child is experiencing a lack of harmonization in the family the child will, of course, less attention would then become errant and ignorant because it wanted to get the attention of everyone she meets.
And if a child lives in a family full of harmony, the kid will look more obedient and do not want to create problems when socializing with people he/she meets.
After the family, children also socialize with goog environment such as neighbourhood. The personality of the child will be well formed if his environment promises kept by the right people that there are no deviations in its environment. If in the place of the child in the neighborhood there are social aberrations like close to nightlife
spots such as : discos. Then the child would be carried away by the atmosphere of their surroundings and then will impact adversely and crappy against the formation of the child's character.
The child will become unruly and then can use illegal drugs, can also travel to the place for fun then override the education results will make the child's life became mess.
School environment are also one of the formation of a child's character, where in the school environment, kids will socialize with teachers and classmates.
If a child is unruly and unwilling to obey school rules, of course, the child will be given a sanction/punishment by his teacher not to repeat his actions again.
As is the case in the fight fellow pupils, teachers take on the role of the most important to educate his errant returns.
Where teachers can give advice to his disciples in order not to fight again because the fight will only hurt yourself or anyone else because it will cause injuries or bruises. Teachers can also help to improve relations both pupils were originally good friends into enemies.
But often also children now has a bad character formation as well as the present-day teen.
Could we meet teens now tend to be selfish, arrogant and emotional. Teenagers now are also doing a lot of deviations of physical and spiritual good.
As an example we can see in a mall or a place to eat, many teenagers in particular boys do the smoking action carelessly. At the time you sit around teens, you will feel uneasy if you are not a smoker.
Because of the smoke produced from a cigarette that would be very dangerous to the respiratory and our bodies not to mention the smoke contaminate the foods we eat. Deviation it greatly affects the ethics and morals of the smoker to be bad. It is a physical one deviation.
Spiritual perversion can we find in today's youth, especially the teenagers. In puberty they tend to look more aggressive. Then there's also a teen dating scebe is not reasonably performed in public as a kiss. Certainly to people about that perticular age 40 years and over will label both the teenagers are not good. It would be extremely
detrimental to both teens.
Not to mention the many cases of abortion that occur to this day. Even these cases are increasing every year. It is a form of less child morality less now that acts arbitrarily. Due to lack of parental affection and friends as well as factors of the environment that kids do deviation as above.
If parents don't want their kids missing a good morality, and will want to avoid the social deviations, certainly every parent must pay attention to what became the daily activities, then give affection as well as giving enough time to get out togther and teach things that are good for the morale to avoid deviations above. It would be very useful.
Writer : Willy Levon
Twitter : @willylevon
