The method of saying "it's okay" has actually been done by many young mothers.  But the fact is that they are often not aware if they do it too often.  So that makes their children too put aside their emotions.  What makes children so they don't release their emotions which are actually not good to do.
 According to Tiara Pangestika, the method of saying "it's okay" should be done when children face challenges, mothers also have to tell whether they are good or bad.  Furthermore, mothers can also understand the feelings of the child.  So that when children face challenges, children will not be ashamed if they express their emotions or fears.  If this method is used effectively and not continuously, then the child will feel comfortable and show any emotion without embarrassment.