1. The History and Meaning of Mother's Day
Mother's Day is celebrated to honor the immeasurable contributions of mothers. In Indonesia, it falls on December 22, commemorating the First Indonesian Women's Congress in 1928. While the global version of Mother's Day, pioneered by Anna Jarvis, started in the United States, Indonesia's version emphasizes not only family roles but also women's contributions to national development. Despite its noble roots, the celebration often leans toward symbolic gestures like cards and flowers, raising questions about its true purpose.
2. The Impact of Social Media on Mother's Day
In today's digital era, social media dominates Mother's Day celebrations. Millions of users share hashtags, digital tributes, or posts about their mothers, often driven by the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO). While technology helps bridge distances, it can make expressions of gratitude superficial. Instead of being a heartfelt tribute, Mother's Day risks becoming a trendy obligation, overshadowing its essence of genuine love and respect.
3. Making Mother's Day More Meaningful
Mother's Day should go beyond trends and consumerism. It's an opportunity to advocate for policies that support mothers' well-being, from better caregiving resources to gender equality. True appreciation lies in daily acts of kindness---helping with household tasks, spending quality time, or simply listening. By focusing on consistent actions, we ensure Mother's Day is not just a date on the calendar but a reflection of enduring love and gratitude.