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"Personal Flexibility: A Series of Life Events"

19 Oktober 2017   18:30 Diperbarui: 22 Oktober 2017   12:51 910
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The Bureau.

I would spend my money for making this services available to me after all the year gone by. So why? I'm sure there must be some reason. Well, I'd fully recommend the psychologist structured way to overcome my personal problem.

On the beginning, let's make it clear about me whom tend to not pretending that I didn't have a problem, at all. Instead, I have this one, small, problem, and that's the reason. People gonna say that's useless to come to a psychologist, waste of money, bla bla bla. For me, that Psychologist psy degree proves better compared with the people opinions.

The occupational therapist helped me to figure out my problem, the thing that I didn't know, they're the expert of various human experience. Now, let me tell you a story. When I was 7 years old, I have a problem in observing too many living aspect in a detailed way, the school, families, friends, and even myself. Yeah, I was overwhelmed by my habit of analyzing too much.

I was a struggling kid once, who tried to figure out his own personal development phases. So my mom took me out to the Psychology bureau to meet me up with the psychologist.

After some delirious discussion with my psychologist, further known as my mentor. I do having progress on changing myself to a better way of understanding the basic rule of living this life as an INFJ.

Damn, an introvert? Well there must be intuition, feeling and some other complicated things. How do you want to figure that out? One thing I know about my mentor is, they cannot make you happy about living a life, or anything else in your life.

But they can make you happy by providing you the right way to find happiness. Happiness is simple, it's in you, it's make yourself more powerful by being gratefully appreciate every small thing in life.

They teach me how to be successful in learning a language. They're even not an English teacher whom teaches me the language, but what they do is to teach me the creative ways to learn sooo many things, not only Italian, Hebrew, or Mandarin language.

I know, it's amazing, right?  -- I met my mentor twice in a week, at first, we do some meditation to relax and open up our mind, then, she gave me the chance to talk about my recent condition, what's happen in my life.

I think, nothing is more important than having someone as your mentor, listening to you, and giving you the good advice that picked up by multiple consideration before she/he gave it to you.

However, I believe that the science of human Psychology is important. In this Psychology bureau, I learned how to stay relax and feel at ease on every life circumstances, and I learned how to control my personal ego, and how to not blow and messing around with my own life.

How to make yourself feel curious all the time about learning and doing, I remember it's called as a lifelong learning process. Nowadays, I miss coming back to the bureau again, sitting in their veranda, reading a book in their living room with a side table lamp and a gorgeous young psychologist as my mentor. Damn, she was a hot Psychologist.

*****

Cleaning up the mess.

A gentleman should be responsible for what he did. Cleaning up the mess is one of the must-do manner that my father told me to do all the time. Yes, it is to clean up my own mess, my yesterday underwear, my shirt, my moustache and my wild growing beard. You know, because I'm not a man who looked good with a beard or moustache grow on my face, I apparently like a catfish guy who didn't get rid of himself.

You wouldn't like that either, I presume. Hey, it's the gentleman business we have down here, the next thing I'm going to do is to get rid of myself. I remember my father told me to clean up my bed, my room, my shoes, hair, or anything related to me. But that doesn't makes me a Mr. Nice guy. Cause I'm still the asshole who works and try my best to get rid of what my father told me so.

*****

Saving & Investing.

Living myself ain't an easy thing to do. In the beginning, I'm the rich kid who can conquer everyone by my money, the gardener I had been my labor toy that I've been played him every day with my treacherous tricks. Yes, I'm that little devil who bother you everyday cause I got some good and precious privileges down here.

But now the world is changing. Inflation everywhere and national crisis happens every year, nothing good, living in a democratic country is the best way to die slowly and painfully. My father didn't have any Investing or saving account either for that long, so there comes his bankruptcy era. It was sad and disgusting, it disappoints everyone in my family.

But, I can handle this one.

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