I think, nothing is more important than having someone as your mentor, listening to you, and giving you the good advice that picked up by multiple consideration before she/he gave it to you.
However, I believe that the science of human Psychology is important. In this Psychology bureau, I learned how to stay relax and feel at ease on every life circumstances, and I learned how to control my personal ego, and how to not blow and messing around with my own life.
How to make yourself feel curious all the time about learning and doing, I remember it's called as a lifelong learning process. Nowadays, I miss coming back to the bureau again, sitting in their veranda, reading a book in their living room with a side table lamp and a gorgeous young psychologist as my mentor. Damn, she was a hot Psychologist.
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Cleaning up the mess.
A gentleman should be responsible for what he did. Cleaning up the mess is one of the must-do manner that my father told me to do all the time. Yes, it is to clean up my own mess, my yesterday underwear, my shirt, my moustache and my wild growing beard. You know, because I'm not a man who looked good with a beard or moustache grow on my face, I apparently like a catfish guy who didn't get rid of himself.
You wouldn't like that either, I presume. Hey, it's the gentleman business we have down here, the next thing I'm going to do is to get rid of myself. I remember my father told me to clean up my bed, my room, my shoes, hair, or anything related to me. But that doesn't makes me a Mr. Nice guy. Cause I'm still the asshole who works and try my best to get rid of what my father told me so.
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Saving & Investing.
Living myself ain't an easy thing to do. In the beginning, I'm the rich kid who can conquer everyone by my money, the gardener I had been my labor toy that I've been played him every day with my treacherous tricks. Yes, I'm that little devil who bother you everyday cause I got some good and precious privileges down here.
But now the world is changing. Inflation everywhere and national crisis happens every year, nothing good, living in a democratic country is the best way to die slowly and painfully. My father didn't have any Investing or saving account either for that long, so there comes his bankruptcy era. It was sad and disgusting, it disappoints everyone in my family.
