Bosen Minder? Yuk, Jadi Percaya Diri!

Pernah dengar atau baca kalimat itu nggak, sih? Mereka ya mereka, kamu ya kamu. Apa yang mereka punya, nggak ada sangkut pautnya dengan hidup kamu. Kalau mereka punya istana, apakah itu akan berpengaruh di hidup kalian? Kalau mereka punya gadget keluaran terbaru, apakah itu akan berpengaruh di hidup kalian? Apakah setiap hal yang mereka punya berdampak pada hidup kalian? Karena pada kenyataannya tidak sama sekali.

Harus kalian ingat, Tuhan menciptakan setiap makhlukNya sesempurna mungkin. Setiap orang punya porsinya masing-masing. Nggak semua hal yang kalian lihat di media sosial itu nyata. Kita nggak pernah benar-benar tahu, apa yang ada di pikiran "orang-orang sempurna" itu. Mungkin, saat kalian merasa iri dengan apa yang mereka punya, mereka juga merasa iri dengan apa yang kalian punya. Well, i mean.. we'll never know.
Kalau kalian aja nggak suka ketika hasil karya kalian disebut jelek, bagaimana dengan Tuhan? Jadi, bersyukur. Tuhan menciptakan kalian juga nggak asal-asalan, semuanya udah Tuhan ukur seakurat mungkin. He made you with love. He knows what you need.

It's funny how people think that they're always less than others. We never even live their life, not even a second, and we thought their life is so much more better than us. Sometimes, people need to realize that not everything we want will be ours. It's not that life is unfair, we just never really know what we actually need. People crave for something they don't have, that's why other people's life always feel so much better than ours. I don't even think that social media is something that need our whole energy. Why should we care so much about how do we look on screen? That sounds ridiculous to me. We need to pay more attention about how we feel. It doesn't matter if you're the wealthiest person in the whole world, if you feel that isn't enough, then it isn't.
Oh to living their life. What about you just living your own life? And if you don't like how your life is going on right now, then change your fate. Do something with your life. Evolve. You want to have that perfect body in your mind? Then work out, or eat more. Do something that align with your desire. You want to be rich? Then work harder. Start that business that you've been planned for you whole life. And remember, what you see on social media isn't reality. People share what they want to share. And of course, most of them only post the great side of their life. If you don't like it, then scroll. If you feel life is unfair just by looking at their posts, then scroll. If you're jealous of how people living their life, then do something with yours. Comparing your life with their life will take you nowhere. Doesn't seems like you're going to have their life, though. So, what are you doing? Wasting your time for hating your life instead of change it? Wake up. You're living in real life, not in your social media. How many likes that you get, doesn't define your life. How many people compliment you, doesn't define who you are. You are who you are, beside anybody else agree with it or not, it doesn't matter. Your own opinion is the one that does. So, please start taking care of yourself, instead of your social media account.