One more, if you are working low-level jobs. Which is more important? People are judging you as a low-quality person who doesn't manage to get a better job or because you need to make money as fast as possible to live your life.
In this social media era, you may be being watched even if you don't know you are being watched. Does a performer in 2020 consider what someone in 2024 will think about the quality of their performance? No. But the fact is, the performer has to perform at that time.
So the fear of the spotlight is not to be avoided but rather to be managed. We have to set our values according to their relevance to our lives. Do people's thoughts about us matter more than the purpose of our actions? People don't know the exact values of our minds and actions. We do.
Not giving a f might be a useful tool for our minds to actually prioritize what matters to us and focus on the real things we are working on.
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