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How to Deal With Horrible Bosses

30 Oktober 2018   00:17 Diperbarui: 5 November 2018   09:52 362
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Maybe the title of the comedy movie is more popular to describe thing related to the 'difficult' boss. No matter what kind of companies, there is always one most horrible boss in those. Sometimes, this could be one big problem for the employee working for a horrible boss since the boss will keep pushing them to work beyond their limits (isn't that good or not?), set up complicated rules, high demands which (sometimes) could leave some serious emotional scars and make our work life feel miserable. But, the work environment without a horrible boss is just like a television series without conflict, as flat as a board.

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 Just like in Horrible Bosses movie, the thing that light up that movie is those characters of the horrible bosses, and what should we realize is, the horrible boss in our office or work environment exists for dismiss our 'comfort zone' and turn it to new challenges every times we walk into the office door. Many employees can't stand of their horrible bosses and finally decide to quit their job, but your horrible bosses never run out the employees. Is it because your horrible boss have a secret superpower to make you stay? Or is it because of the high faithfullness on you?

It is just because they are able to understand each others. Okay, this may sounds cheesy but employee shouldn't give up easily and choose to leave their job. They should try to fully accept their boss' bad habits to prove that you are the irreplaceable empoyee in a company. So, here are some ways to deal with a horrible boss;

1. Stay Focus
Is your horrible bosses really horrible at everytimes? They must be an extremely terrible bosses then. But, actually our bosses turn to be a monster when we can't do a simple little thing they ask us to. He could explode into a scream just like a time bomb when we couldn't give the best reasons as they want. Why we can't finish our deadline? Don't you dare ever said that you're forget, you don't have enough time, or you're blaming the company because it gives you so much works to do, just give an appropriate answer that the fault is in yours. You should stay focus on your job and responsibility.

2. Don't take their swear words personally
Okay, your horrible bosses will keep saying horrible words when they extremelly mad, right? Like their brain automatically set up a system just to swearing and cursing at us in front of all our co-workers in a workplace. What should we do with that humiliating moment? Just one simple answer, forget about it. Keep reminding yourself that this is just the way they are. Let they scream the profanity and take it as their daily activity.

3. never respond to their rants
It's actually easier said than done. People usually never accept the rants just by doing nothing and silent. But, before we train our self not to respond to their rants, we should be the master of not to take their swear words personally first. So, when you're in the situation where your horrible bosses are showering you with rants, you should be calm just stay cool and maybe just act like you are really regretting the mess you've made and convince them you're not going to do the same mistake.

4. Make a Good relationship with your co-workers
Don't let bad thing happens between you and your bosses, also between you and your co-workers. It will turn your workplace into hell. Isn't it good when you've just accepted their carping and then you can share your complicated feelings with your co-workers? You can get positive feedback and support which could be a mood booster to keep your spirit up to work.

5. Don't give up
This is the most important thing, don't you ever give up on your horrible bosses. It will make you look like losers in front of their eyes. So hang in there! Just do your duties well and try to prove them that you're just the ideal employees who are able to receive all the bad habits of theirs. Never quit your jobs with this reason, leave it when your bosses ask you to leave.

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The term 'horrible boss' may not really negative as it sounds. All the swear words out of their mouth do make our day at workplace become uncomfortable. But we should know, sometimes, the uncomfortable thing allows us to keep moving or running to to the better stage, or to the unexpected happy ending, just like the Horrible Bosses movie.

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