Ideally, a couple in a love relationship will love and care each other. On the other hand, a toxic relationship also happen in a love relationship. Toxic relationship is a term which describes an unwell relationship which may bring mental or physical impact.
It may happn not only in a dating but also in a family or friendship. We should avoid this kind of relationship for several reasons. Firstly toxic relationship may drive someone into mental disturbance. Someone that is gaslighted in a relationship will feel under pressure and depressed.
Then, he or she may feel anxious, stressed, and depressed. Moreover those mental disturbance will bring further negative impact physically. Secondly victims of toxic relationship is hard to be true self. The abuser tend to show dominance and control to his or her couple.
Since they are frequently under controlled, they don't often show their ideas and opinion because they are afraid what they express are wrong. It may hamper someone to achieve their goals and ideas. Thirdly, envy and jealousy frequently appear in this relationship. Sometimes jealousy is something normal and natural in a relationship. It is manifestation of out caring.
However when it is abundant, the feeling may drive your couple to do bad action such as grabbing your cellphone or oppose your friends. Sometimes victims don't realize if they are abused in toxic relationship. If you are dealing with the problem you may end your relationship and see therapist who can make big difference in how you feel.
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