IF YOU CAN'T, YOU MUST. IF YOU MUST, YOU CAN --NAC System
Back in the day when I "accidentally" found a radio talk show program on a radio station called Women Radio 94.3 FM in Jakarta, which on air every Wednesday and Thursday evening at 10.00 PM - 12.00 AM. The speaker was a psychologist and worked as a consultant of emotional and spiritual quotient. When he said that he welcomed free consultation to his house or offered open house for the audience who intended to consult their problems, suddenly I became aware that I needed to consult him immediately. After that, I was invited to participate in his seminar entitled "A Touch of Personal Power" by Neuro Associative Conditioning (NAC) System in Jakarta.
From this seminar, in spite of the seminar materials sounded not a "brand new" to me anymore, what I have got from the seminar was really amazing. Apparently I could understand the problem that I was facing and I could try to solve it only with the power of the positive thinking that I have learned from the seminar. I think this was the first self-help seminar I attended on how to manage emotional and spiritual quotients with the intention of building strong personal skills.
In addition, in future this very vivid developed training/seminar and alike would be very important for women and also men to be obtainable in order to ascertain the interactions amongst them and within their family as well as within the society in general in which they live and spend their lives, for instance, how to recognise the personality between each other and to construct the virtuous interactions so that they can live harmoniously and peacefully.
A year later, I could feel an alteration in my personality and in my life development. I must say that I became more mature in seeing anything that was happening surrounding me and I could take the right responses and actions to work out of them all.
Let us consider this: In my opinion, the development of human resources that retain good characters and satisfactory qualities are the noble goals of education in formal and non-formal education as well as in informal education. For example, what I have gained from the objectives of the seminar above and alike.
These qualities are not only determined by the achievement of material matter, but also of mental and spiritual nature. From what I understood, to be a qualified person as mentioned, one should try to be a respectable person first, and then she/he can best contribute something to help produce or achieve something for others as well as for the community at large.*