Positive Thing about Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking !!! Most of trainer in motivation training  give concept about that, but do you ever try to apply in your real life ? I mean not just say, but apply ..

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Let me share my experience during in kindergarten ( play group ) with my nephew. Whenever my nephew got conflict with his friends, I am trying to stay cool. It doesn't mean I don’t care, but I am trying to not get involved, create a space to his teacher solve their conflict ( their here refer to my nephew and his friend ).

In that moment, I learn something. Conflict are full of negative things, but their teacher try to build positive thinking track over those negative things.

For example :

Student A : Sepatumu kotor, JELEK !!!

Student B : ( menangis ) Dia mengejek sepatuku, dibilang jelek karena kotor !

Teacher : Dia tidak mengejek, cuma memberikan informasi, kita harus berterima kasih.

Another case ..

Student A : ( memukul murid B )

Student B : ( menangis ) Dia jahat, barusan pukul aku !

Teacher : Dia tidak jahat, cuma belum tahu cara ngajak bermain, seharusnya dipeluk bukan pukul.

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How our kids will grow up is depend on us, depend on our expression, our reaction. If we build them in a positive way, with God’s permission, he will grow up as a positive kids.