I listened to XXXFM (one of radio station in jakarta) at morning, and there's this conversation:
host: "So if you have to a chance to be forgiven, who would you ask the most?"
woman (semi whispering): "I would like to apologize to my boyfriend's WIFE ... and I really hope that she forgive me"
host: "Ummm ... so you're having an affair with a married man, and you want to ask for forgiveness from his wife?"
woman: "Yes ... we've been doing this for 5 years"
host: "OMG ... seriously? ... that's .... ummm okay. Are you married to someone?
woman: "in a few weeks yeah. I'll be married to someone"
host: "You're about to get married, and you're still having an affair with someone else, a married man? ... I don't understand"
woman: "Well ... I loved him (married man) very much, and the only reason I got married is because he (married man) asked me to get married with someone else so I can get a normal life ...."
host: "What? ... say that again? unbelievable ... ... ... in my honest opinion, I think you won't give up your affair even after your marriage, correct?"
woman: "Yeah ... I can't help it, I love him so much"