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Unrequited Love

Diperbarui: 25 Juni 2015   07:39

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Being in love with someone who does not love you can be a heartbreaking experience. There is nothing worse than a broken heart. It makes you feel like your whole world has been turned upside down and inside out. Everything seems to go wrong. You cannot eat, you cannot sleep, you just cannot function. All you can do is think about the love that you have lost.

Maybe a broken heart cannot be healed, even with time. In fact, the truth is that if you forget and move on then your heart will too. If you just keep going over the past and unable to think of the future then you will never able to move on.

Your heart has broken so you just have two options. One is to remain in this pain forever and the other is to accept what has happened and move on. If you stay in your current situation, you will remain unhapy. Only you who can control your future and you need to start making choices that will eventually bring you to your new life.

Many people said that time is a great healer and everything will come back to normal with the passage of time. Instead of sitting and brooding over what has happened, just break out of your despair and look at the beautiful world outside. You may even find the courage to get over a broken heart and emerge as a stronger person.

You are a person and you are worth everything. Do not put yourself down or think that you are worthless because there is one person who does not love you anymore. Think of the other people that do love you such as your family, friends, teacher, etc. Focus on continuing to make those people happy.

Instead wishing for the past, focus on those suggestions and take them as advices to make yourself a better person then turn your life around. Now you have been given a chance to find and love yourself first. You do not need anyone else. You are you and you will be happy again.




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