Stop having bad prejudices, let's improve ourselves better
In building good friendships and continuing friendship, we must actually maintain our morals towards each other. Quoting from one of the trusted pages, bad prejudice is not the character or character of successful people. Because it can hinder the arrival of good fortune. This is in line with real life conditions, namely that people who always have bad prejudices against other people cannot develop their lives. Why does this happen ? Because the time spent is only a bad thought so that one's life is not taken care of. As a result, what should be done fails because it only takes care of someone.
Prejudice towards others is not trivial. If he continues to do so, it is possible that a split will occur between the two parties. Because prejudice does not understand something or the real problem. Without a doubt, that's where he talks bad about other people. This can cause harm to the person both in this world and the afterlife. It could even be possible for a great war to occur between the prejudiced person and the other person.
There are three ways that everyone can do to avoid being prejudiced against others. First, approach people who tell the truth and limit it to people who are jealous. People who tell the truth make us more controlled in responding to attitudes that occur in the surrounding environment. A strong reason, stay away from people who easily tell lies so that we don't fall for their attitude. Therefore, as a servant, you must always do good and avoid bad prejudices which have an impact on yourself.
Second, think positively about every incident that occurs in the surrounding environment. The more we think positively, the more negative prejudices we can have towards others. Positive thinking must be a habit every day. Should you get used to it? Yes, you have to get used to it because if you do something often, it will carry over into old age. Behind positive thinking, of course we get the impact that has been done. Every person's life is different with their own path of destiny. Therefore, we must be grateful for what we have and remain positive about God's gifts. Don't become a greedy person yourself without looking at anyone.
Lastly, cover up other people's mistakes by not saying it in public. So that we avoid bad prejudices. Therefore, we can keep ourselves busy by cleaning the dust that is still attached to every human being, so that it is not easy to sneer at other people's bad things. Keep yourself busy with positive things so you don't comment or blame other people. Blaming or being prejudiced against other people can break friendships. Everyone must have traits like that. However, if you can minimize it then bad things won't happen to you.
The most important thing is to be more grateful and patient with the tests that occur and always think positively towards other people. Basically, God always tests every servant based on their abilities. Hopefully a little can be useful.
Trenggalek, January 30 2024
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